self righteousness

Self righteousness is a term normally use to describe those whose think their belief are superior than others

 hence imposing all sorts of attitude onto others and expect them to think like them; indirectly causing coercion 

self righteousness and manipulation are both actions performed with intention to change others;

having said that, manipulative people are seem to concern more on the action being performed. either or not the mind of others were being brainwashed

on the other hand, self righteousness people are interested more in 'standardizing' others' thinking according to themselves

Many of us believe that wrongs aren't wrong if it's done by nice people like ourselves

[unknown author cited from http://www.quotegarden.com/hypocrisy.html]

few times experiences happened one after another like karma whispering: 'hey, go figure it out'

Case 1: My ex employer (the witch with her spells not working)

Being a business woman and a general manager, her manipulative skill was excellent.

She persuaded her employee to work hard for her, with the mere wages she offered;

she persuaded clients to make her a business, regardless the service she offered was really benefiting the clients

she is like a witch, and manipulation is her spells;

Her choice of words was good; her stands was strong,

which made yours the inferior one

your said will not be counted; and your opinion isn't needed

you don't even have a right; she will decide what's good for you,

 whichever comes after her priority 

she once, get my admiration; until now I've to try so hard to escape from her controls

she doesn't needs working partner or employee

what she needs is a dog; who is loyal with no ability to think and decide for themselves

Case 2: My ex supervisor (a guy with all the drama queen characteristics)

it's been fun working with him; but the last bit of memory he threw to me was horrifying

as in he drowned me in a sea, of the judgments he made and the comments he gave

which has almost, killed me

he said that I always think I am clever

although I got no clue which part of me has already threaten him

but at least i knew that he was sick of me

 Case 3: A stranger (the idiot seeing world as a fool)

Other than 'annoying', I can't think of any other better words to describe him 

it's was all started with a stupid call

one morning, he called and ask me where i am

I was like: who are u? and why should i report myself to you?

but then I hang up his call

for him trying to speak nonsense with unfamiliar accent

after that, he text-ed me, asking me not to piss off with him

and something like it was a miracle that he has dialed the wrong number

yea.. yea.. this lame trick was used by a friend of mine 5 bloody years ago

well, i've made a mistake, that is to reply him

I apologize for hanging up his phone, it's kind of rude

and there goes starting of my nightmare

he text-ed me almost everyday, 'lecturing' me with all his stupid logic

i've tried few times replying him IN A NICE WAY not to bother me

it was all useless

then I try to tell him that I'm 45 years old

for him to think that he'd wasting so much time on an old auntie

then he told me it's all acceptable, we were just 4 years different

what the heck? 4 years different means you are bloody 41 now?!

and what did you just said? for you, It's all acceptable?

you're such an idiot that i can't even take any single thing from you!

every greet from him was like a curse for me; he'd had ruined my days

he'd talking too much about himself; while he never consider mine

he is such a PERFECT CANDIDATE for self righteousness

let's all give him a big applause, he deserved the the champion among all