Sunday, October 16, 2011

Apologize

APOLOGIZING
"doesn't mean that you're wrong and the other person is right.
it's just means that you value your relationship more than your ego"
[quote cited from http://www.searchquotes.com/viewimage/Apologizing_Doesn't_Mean_That_You're_Wrong/41/]

so, guys.. whenever your girlfriend gets angry, all she wants is simply a sincere apology
now, why and how should you APOLOGIZE?

Step 1: Responsibility
regardless who's fault; or who had made things worse and complicated
if you're a GUY, you have the right to INITIATE an APOLOGY
it doesn't mean you need to admit every single fault; but simply to show that you're responsible, for her and her problem

Step 2: Express
apologize, and mean it
if you have your reason or intention of performing the action or react on particular way, explain it, let her know, to avoid misunderstanding

Step 3: Solution
problem seem to be solved at step 2, you may just end it with a sweet kiss or a tight hug;
yet the root of the problem may not be fully solved yet, as it might potentially carry some others problems in the near future

a wise man, should know how to proceed further to cut off the root of the problem
once the flame in her heart had been comforted with a splash of cooling water, you need to immediately analyse the problem with her, to find out the cause of problem so as to figure ways to handle it  before the next time has hit you guys real hard

apology doesn't necessary to be formal. it can somehow be informal, funny, and acting cute
depending which way your girl prefer more, as well as the occasions
of course, bigger mistake should always be handled more seriously and carefully

here's are some of the ideas for you.. i found it from the net thinking it's cute
at least if my bf send me this to apologize, i think i'll forgive him. haha
(but with the condition that all the blanks are filled la, of course)

  

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